I’ve got the Thanksgiving Blues

Our Story — By Cat on November 24, 2009 at 12:55 PM | 667 PAGE VIEWS |

Thanksgiving is just two days away and I’m feeling a little blue about it. This will be the first year in 26 years that we didn’t celebrate the day with a big turkey, all the fixin’s and my crazy family all talking over each other. It’s a good kind of crazy and I’ll miss it. My kids are going to miss it.

I’m especially sad for Emma as this is her first Thanksgiving. She’ll be missing out her cousins fighting over who gets to hold her, she’ll be missing out on my sister and I bantering, she’ll be missing out on my mom running around the kitchen looking for the hand towel that mysteriously disappeared…she’ll be missing out on her family.

Worst case scenario, we pick up some of these…

thanksgiving turkey swanson

Best case scenario, I pick up one of those processed butterballs and try to put together some normal sides without making enough food to feed 20. It’s a strange problem I have – overcooking.

Despite having the Thanksgiving blues, I’m thankful for…

my mom surviving her heart attack and stent surgeries.

having my husband by my side through all of my crazy moods.

three children that are happy, healthy and blessed.

the wonderful bloggers and readers that have been here with me for the past year through all of my crazy template changes and random thoughts.

    15 Comments

  • 1
    Aggie says:

    No matter who you spend Thanksgiving with or what you eat if you are thankful for what you do have it’s all good.

  • 2
    lisa p says:

    awe cat im sorry but your family by yourself will help!

  • 3
    Shana says:

    (((Cat))) Being with your wonderful family makes it special no matter what the circumstances

  • 4
    Malia says:

    Sometimes the biggest of blessings come in small packages.

  • 5
    Stefanie says:

    So sorry about your mom. I hope she is doing better. I so wish you lived closer and you could join us this year. My daughter and I could fight over who would get to hold Emma! lol

    I hope that your Thanksgiving is a nice quiet one filled with fun, laughter and small family moments that turn into memories. Sometimes a boring day can create more memories than a busy one! ((hugs))

  • 6
    Jen says:

    I am feeling the same way! This year it just us. I am cooking still but I really wanted to spend it
    with the rest of the family the sad part is we are not on good terms!
    I hope you and your family have a great day no matter what you do!

  • 7
    Laurie says:

    Big hugs, I feel ya. I was raised around 28 firs cousins, and a big hubub around the holidays. My husband is dutch and never celebrated Thanksgiving so he doesn’t care. I miss it for me and my kids though. We have no family here and it sucks. I too am trying to figure out what I want to do for tomorrow. I always overcook, but I like all the fixings.

  • 8
    angie says:

    I feel for you and hope that somehow you can find a way to make your thanksgiving a bit festive

  • 9
    Kayla says:

    Aw, I totally understand what your going through-We usually have all sorts of family over for the holidays and this year it’s just going to be my mum, dad, me and my sister. It’s definitely bittersweet but there’s always Christmas!

  • 10
    1stopmom says:

    We are doing it small this year as well, I don’t know it just does not feel like Thanksgiving. But just like you I am thankful for quite a few things. I hope you have a nice holiday :)

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