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Life After Graduation

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Recent college grads are heading out into the real world for the first time. While it’s exciting to live life on your own, it’s also scary and overwhelming. You are in control of your future and the decisions you make now will affect your financial stability and health.

Securing a Place to Live

Your resume was impressive and landed you a good-paying job. Now, you need to find a place to live. Working in the city comes with both convenience and expenses. Finding an affordable apartment can be difficult, however, it is not impossible. If you have a friend from college who’s also in the market for an apartment, you could go in together. This will allow you to split the cost of the rent, utilities, and food. If you prefer to have your own space, then you’ll need to find something small or opt to live outside the city limits to afford to carry it on your own.

A Mode of Transportation

You need to buy a car to get to and from work and run errands. Checking your budget tells you that you need to find something in a modest price range. A good option is one fresh off a lease or one that is for sale by an owner. With no established credit, securing your first loan can be challenging. However, you can find a first time car buyer loan where your credit history is not a requirement.

A Healthy Diet

With only one person to take care of, you may end up ordering take out and eating out more than you should. Not only is this expensive, but it can also take a toll on your health. Fast food doesn’t require the nutrition your body needs to stay fit and energized. Instead, go to the supermarket and stock your fridge and cabinets with things like fresh fruits, vegetables, lean meats, nuts, and yogurt. To save money, check the store’s fliers online to see who has the lowest prices on the things you need.

Free Entertainment

It takes an entire year of living on your own to figure out your true expenses. Spending money going out each weekend can put you at a greater risk of losing your apartment, your car, and your independence. Finding things to do that cost little or no money is important. Take a walk in the park and enjoy the fresh air, visit museums, go to the beach or rent a movie. If you want to spend an evening with friends, have everyone chip in for the drinks and snacks, and have fun at home.

Create a Budget

It’s essential to establish a household budget from the beginning. This will allow you to allocate money for weekend getaways and vacations and have money tucked away for emergencies. Make a list of your bills on a sheet of paper or print out a free budget worksheet and fill in the areas that apply. A budget will be your savior during the first crucial year and help you secure financial stability going forward.

Needs and Wants

With a new life in front of you and your first try at living on your own, you may want to go out and buy everything you need and want. Instead, be mindful of your expenses and make it a practice to weigh the pros and cons ahead of any major purchase. You need a table to eat at, so it makes sense to save money for this purchase. While you may want a gaming system, other needs are waiting in line.

Living on your own for the first time is exciting. You can survive the first year if you create a budget and limit your spending to things you need.

Cool Indoor Activities That Your Kids Will Love

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This year has forced so many of us to find ways in which we can entertain ourselves indoors. especially those who who have kids. Even the most creative of parents will have reached the end of their tether in terms of coming up with ideas which they can do in order to keep the kids entertained. One of the keys to helping the kids is understanding that they will be back to school soon and that educational indoor activities will help them to have fun whilst also preparing them for getting back to school. With this in mind, here are some ideas which you can try with your kids.

Gardening

Teaching your kids about garnering is more than just recruiting them to help keep your herb garden alive. This activity will help them in terms of understanding the important role that plants play in our lives and of course the source of food. Start with a simple pot plant and take it from seed to sprout with your kids taking responsibility.

Learning Board Games

Games ave changed over the years and whilst the computer games which we have now are often based around strategy, speed and skill traditional board games will teach your kids about much more. Board games like Monopoly or Yahtzee and Chess can really help your kids to learn something whilst they are playing and having fun.

The Night Sky

Most kids love the idea of becoming an astronaut one day and you can harness this energy and use it to teach your kids about the night sky and what it means. This will help them to begin to form an idea of what all of this is about and you can use some great apps which break down the stars and the constellations so that your kids can learn what to look for in the sky.

Science Experiments

Every action and reaction in life is based around science and there are so many incredibly fun experiments which you can do at home with them. Even something as basic as creating a volcano using coke and Mentos will fascinate them and you can find some great tutorials on YouTube which will break down what you need by way of resources in order to perform multiple science experiments. Science is always an area that kids love because they love to wonder so much.

Try out these activities with your kids to get their brains engaged once more.

Why Is Home Health So Important for Families With Kids?

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Home health is one element of general health that unfortunately tends to go by the wayside for a lot of people. It’s important that you remember to consider your home’s health with the same seriousness that you would the health of any family member. After all, your home’s health can have a serious impact on your family’s health. For families with kids, it’s even more important. Here’s how this home health checklist can be even more influential when you have kids.

Home Health Checklist
Home Health Checklist Created By:   JES

Structural Health

You need to pay close attention to your home’s structural health in general; after all, poor structural health could lead to extremely serious concerns, including complete structural failure. However, even minor structural health concerns can be more serious when you have children in the home.

Structural health often centers around your home’s foundation. A strong home foundation is definitely ideal, but there are many potential reasons for foundation concerns. These can range from issues with the soil around your home to problems regarding the initial pouring of a concrete foundation. Regardless of the problems, it’s important to fix them because structural problems can end up causing irreversible damage without a fix.

Basement Health

Do you have a basement? If you do, you might think that the most important thing for maintaining safety in your home’s basement is ensuring your kids stay out of it. True, having a child who falls down the basement stairs could be a serious problem. However, the biggest problem could actually be issues with basement waterproofing.

Basements tend to have a reputation for issues with waterproofing. This typically occurs because the basement is below the ground’s surface and has surrounding soil that can be very wet. If water enters through the basement walls and you’re unable to get rid of it, you can have a musty smell, mold, mildew, and other problems. These can seriously impact the health of young children.

Crawl Space Health

Even homes that don’t have a basement often have a crawl space. Crawl spaces are a great way for inspectors to get in and look at things like your home’s pipes and structural supports without having to dig into the home itself. However, the problem is that crawl spaces can run into the same problems as basements, oftentimes even with waterproofing problems as well.

One big problem with crawl spaces is that many people don’t think about how much of an impact crawl spaces have on the rest of the home. Sure, you probably know that your basement and your home share air with each other, but did you know that your home gets up to 50% of its air through your crawl space? If your crawl space’s air is unhealthy, your home’s air will be unhealthy, which can cause health concerns for your whole family.

Home Concrete Health

The last element of home health to pay attention to is concrete health. Almost everyone has some form of concrete around their home. You may have concrete on your driveway, in your home’s basement, on your patio, and many more areas. If this concrete isn’t healthy, you could end up with very serious overarching problems.

Trips and falls are extremely common with concrete issues. This may be because of cracked concrete, uneven concrete, or even just concrete that doesn’t have the right grip. These can be even more prominent with children, because children can trip over even very small uneven spaces between concrete slabs.

Conclusion

All home health hazards are important for any home, but this is especially true for many homes with children. If you have children, it’s important that you keep your home as safe and secure as possible for everyone’s sake. That may mean talking to a home health expert, such as a foundation repair expert, to learn more about your home health options. Remember, your entire family lives in your home. That should be reason enough to maintain its health, even if you need to call in outside help.

How to Help Your Teen Have a Great Future

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Helping your teen navigate some of the most emotional and pivotal years of their life can be a challenging task at times. Many parents struggle with finding the right balance between giving advice and telling them what to do. You know that your teen needs to be able to figure some things out on their own, however you might also feel like you know what is best for them in certain situations. While this may be true, allowing them to find their own way with your guidance, as opposed to control, is important.

The fact of the matter is that your teen is going to have an exciting future ahead of them. If you are looking for ways in which you can help them achieve all that they can and enjoy that bright future, here are a few tips to bear in mind.

Learn to Listen

When it comes to helping your teen to have a great future, one of the most important things you can do for them is to learn how to listen. It is only by listening to your teen that you will be able to better understand the vision that they have for their own future. By learning to listen, you can offer them all the assistance and guidance that they need in order to achieve the future they are after.

Listening is also the only way to know where your teen is at right now emotionally and mentally speaking. Your teen might be dealing with struggles that haven’t been apparent to you up until now. You should pay special attention when they reach out to you and try to read between the lines when they share things with you. Many teens find it difficult to be honest with their parents about the things they are dealing with, but if you let them know that you are there to listen to them then they will be more likely to open up.

If you do find that your teen is in need of more specialized help, you can then bring them to a rehab center for teens. You will never know if such a step is necessary, though, unless you learn to listen.

Help Them Plan

In order for your teen to achieve the bright future that they envision and that you want for them, they will need to take definitive steps towards it. This means that you will both need to be on the same page about what that future looks like and what needs to be done in pursuit of it.

If your ten has a specific career in mind, what sort of degree and experience are necessary to be qualified for such a career? If they don’t know yet what they want to do with their life, are there certain areas of interest that they can explore? You might consider having them shadow a professional who is already working in one of your teen’s areas of interest.

Whatever their future holds, they will need your help to plan out the right path to that future.

The Staple Pieces That Should Be in Every Moms Wardrobe

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Whether you’re a new mom or have been a mom for thirty years, you know that your kids often take priority. You’re likely more concerned with your child’s wardrobe than your own, and being so busy means not much time for shopping for yourself. You’re always on the go and need a wardrobe that supports your lifestyle. That said, you also deserve to have some fun with your clothing. It needs to be easy for you to throw on and go, but that doesn’t mean you can’t look fabulous.

By stocking your wardrobe with these four pieces, you won’t have to fuss about what to wear, and you’ll always be comfortable and stylish.

1. Supportive bra

If you’re going to be running around all day, you need undergarments to support the girls. Invest in a few good quality bras that fit correctly to ensure they are comfortable and functional. Wearing the wrong size bra can do more harm than good, but a bra that fits can help keep your girls looking perky and reduce back pain. Get something with a little bit of lace to make you feel extra pretty. Even though no one can see it, you will know, and that’s all that matters.

2. Flattering jeans

Every woman, whether they are a mom or not, needs a well-fitting pair of jeans. They are the most versatile piece of clothing that you can dress up or down without giving it too much thought. You can wear them to run errands, go for brunch with the girls, or out for dinner with your husband. Since you’ll be wearing them so often, it’s worth investing in a high-quality pair from a reputable retailer like Old Navy. You want them to be durable and withstand all the wear and tear they will inevitably get. You can help save on the costs by using an Old Navy coupon when you make your purchase.

3. Cute flats

A pair of cute flats are essential for a mom’s wardrobe. You don’t always want to wear running shoes since they won’t go with dresses, skirts, trousers, or other cute outfits. Flats are a happy medium because you can get some that are stylish but still comfortable. You need something that you can walk around in all day without getting blisters, or pain in your feet, legs, or back. There are supportive options of just about every style and color you can think of to choose from, and you can wear them with anything in your wardrobe.

4. A layering cardigan

A cardigan is a staple wardrobe piece as it’s quick to throw on and pulls any look together. A neutral color like black or beige will make it extremely versatile, although you can let your personality shine with fun patterns as well. You can layer it over tank tops, t-shirts, dresses or jumpsuits, allowing your other wardrobe pieces to transition into the colder seasons. Cardigans are lightweight and can easily fit into your baby bag, meaning that you can throw it on whenever it gets a bit cool instead of taking bulky jackets or sweaters everywhere.

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